I hope everyone had a good Christmas. Got everything they wanted, got to spend it with people they love, and or at least had some snow, something I was lacking spending Christmas back home in Ohio. Maybe you even got to kiss a special girl under the mistletoe. Hopefully you are preparing for the new year now, and something important that comes with it-
Resolutions.
Maybe you resolve to lose a little weight, eat out a little less, spend a little less, or if you're very frugal then spend a little more, get out more, spend more time with your family, or maybe, just maybe, to get a girlfriend. Whatever it may be I wish you well in keeping up with it for a whole year. As it is the holiday season I am short on time and must go, but enjoy your New Year, and the few days you may have off from work.
Stay gay and happy blogging,
Kat
Monday, December 26, 2011
Thursday, December 1, 2011
In Love With A Straight Girl
Heart pounding, mind racing, I stared into her big brown eyes and tried to keep my focus on something, anything, other than the fact that I was completely in love with her, but alas, my efforts were futile, for she was all I ever thought about even when she wasn't standing two feet away.
Straight girls. They're everywhere. I truly believe their sole purpose is to break our hearts. At one point or another, every lesbian has had some mad love for a straight girl. Why, though? Why do we fall in love when we know we'll just end up hurt, that they can never love us back? Most times, it's because we can't help it.
Recently, I fell head over heels for a straight girl. I began a job at a local ice cream shop where she herself works too. I remember the first time I worked with her, it was one of our special weekends, 50's Weekend. Special items were on sale for what they would have been in the fifties, and we had the whole place decorated. We even had a jukebox outside. I remember working the same window as her.
Now when I had started working at this place, I had been worried, it was an all girl staff and I did not want to fall for a coworker. But alas, I needed a job, and so I had to. The biggest mistake I make that day was labeling her as a girl I would never fall for. She just wasn't my type. Or so I thought. But telling myself I would never love her was like asking karma to make a fool out of me once more.
A week passed before we worked together again. We worked with two other people, and she cheerfully insisted we work at the same window once again. We had a fun night, at one point I was competing with the people at the other window for customers, and later she and I were singing together. It was magical. And I thought she was totally awesome. In my head I moved her to the work friend zone, where I intended for her to stay.
At home I lay in bed, thinking of how awesome she was, and being the shy girl I was, I was glad she was so nice to me. Then a thought entered my mind, What if I like her? I brushed the thought away under the mental file of-totally crazy unrealistic shit. But as the weeks went by and we had yet to work together again, my feelings grew in her absence. I was in full blown denial by then, swearing to myself I didn't like her. And then one day I finally admitted it to myself.
I had been nervous to work with her since I had officially had a crush on her, but we did anyways, and ever since then I have only come to love her more each day.
I know what some of you are thinking: So where does all this heartbreak come in?
For a while after I realized I had a super-crush on her, I fantasized of my life with her during my daydreaming time. It was like I was carrying out the non-existent relationship in my head. She had never talked about guys, and that filled me with much hope that there was a small sliver of a chance she was gay. Until the night the shit hit the fan.
I was sitting at home in my pajamas, relaxing, when I got a text from one of my good friends. I just saw Rachel* kissing a guy, she wrote. I cried the whole night.
I still didn't stop loving her after that. I saw her one time and she hugged me; I didn't stop smiling the whole day. I'm still in love with her, and will be for a while. It's gonna really suck in March when the shop opens up again and I have to work with her, but until then, I'm officially trying to avoid her.
Just another story of a heartbreaker straight girl.
So what's your story? Share your straight girl love, and remember to watch out for them, because they'll hurt you BAD.
Stay gay and happy blogging,
-Kat
*Not her actual name
Straight girls. They're everywhere. I truly believe their sole purpose is to break our hearts. At one point or another, every lesbian has had some mad love for a straight girl. Why, though? Why do we fall in love when we know we'll just end up hurt, that they can never love us back? Most times, it's because we can't help it.
Recently, I fell head over heels for a straight girl. I began a job at a local ice cream shop where she herself works too. I remember the first time I worked with her, it was one of our special weekends, 50's Weekend. Special items were on sale for what they would have been in the fifties, and we had the whole place decorated. We even had a jukebox outside. I remember working the same window as her.
Now when I had started working at this place, I had been worried, it was an all girl staff and I did not want to fall for a coworker. But alas, I needed a job, and so I had to. The biggest mistake I make that day was labeling her as a girl I would never fall for. She just wasn't my type. Or so I thought. But telling myself I would never love her was like asking karma to make a fool out of me once more.
A week passed before we worked together again. We worked with two other people, and she cheerfully insisted we work at the same window once again. We had a fun night, at one point I was competing with the people at the other window for customers, and later she and I were singing together. It was magical. And I thought she was totally awesome. In my head I moved her to the work friend zone, where I intended for her to stay.
At home I lay in bed, thinking of how awesome she was, and being the shy girl I was, I was glad she was so nice to me. Then a thought entered my mind, What if I like her? I brushed the thought away under the mental file of-totally crazy unrealistic shit. But as the weeks went by and we had yet to work together again, my feelings grew in her absence. I was in full blown denial by then, swearing to myself I didn't like her. And then one day I finally admitted it to myself.
I had been nervous to work with her since I had officially had a crush on her, but we did anyways, and ever since then I have only come to love her more each day.
I know what some of you are thinking: So where does all this heartbreak come in?
For a while after I realized I had a super-crush on her, I fantasized of my life with her during my daydreaming time. It was like I was carrying out the non-existent relationship in my head. She had never talked about guys, and that filled me with much hope that there was a small sliver of a chance she was gay. Until the night the shit hit the fan.
I was sitting at home in my pajamas, relaxing, when I got a text from one of my good friends. I just saw Rachel* kissing a guy, she wrote. I cried the whole night.
I still didn't stop loving her after that. I saw her one time and she hugged me; I didn't stop smiling the whole day. I'm still in love with her, and will be for a while. It's gonna really suck in March when the shop opens up again and I have to work with her, but until then, I'm officially trying to avoid her.
Just another story of a heartbreaker straight girl.
So what's your story? Share your straight girl love, and remember to watch out for them, because they'll hurt you BAD.
Stay gay and happy blogging,
-Kat
*Not her actual name
Monday, November 21, 2011
Would You Like Some Hypocracy With Your Homophobia?
Okay, so we all have the misfortune of knowing a homophobe right? Well I was recently staffing at a camp for highschoolers about leadership. One of the main things that the organization that has these camps teaches is to be
yourself. Little did I know one of my fellow staff did not feel the same. The first night we were there, during one of the free times, two girls were hugging. The homophobe staff Dan decided it was a good idea to inform them that they needed to stop, because they were both reds, and two reds don't make purple, that they needed a blue to make purple. Now these girls were obviously straight, but he still felt the need to let the whole room know that he was not okay with gays. And not only was he being a homophobe, but a hypocrite for going against the motto of the organization and a bad role model to kids who they try to teach not to judge others at some of the workshops.
So that's my terrible story of the week, now I wanna here your homophobe stories so we can all share your pain and anger.
That's all for now, stay gay and happy blogging!
-Kat
yourself. Little did I know one of my fellow staff did not feel the same. The first night we were there, during one of the free times, two girls were hugging. The homophobe staff Dan decided it was a good idea to inform them that they needed to stop, because they were both reds, and two reds don't make purple, that they needed a blue to make purple. Now these girls were obviously straight, but he still felt the need to let the whole room know that he was not okay with gays. And not only was he being a homophobe, but a hypocrite for going against the motto of the organization and a bad role model to kids who they try to teach not to judge others at some of the workshops.
So that's my terrible story of the week, now I wanna here your homophobe stories so we can all share your pain and anger.
That's all for now, stay gay and happy blogging!
-Kat
Friday, November 11, 2011
11-11-11 :)
Dear lesbians, bloggers, internet geeks, curious-about-their-sexuality-girls, people who were somehow randomly directed and or warped to this page, etc., all of the above, and even none of the above,
Today I'm here to talk some serious shit.
Veterans Day. A shout out to all vets and their families, we all appreciate what you do for our country. If you know a vet, please thank them for their service and wish them well on this day. Also, another good thing about this day, thanks to the repeal of DADT soon there will be openly gay vets to celebrate on this day too (although I'm sure there are a few already who have just recently come out thanks to no more DADT).
Second item of serious shit :)
11-11-11. I hope everyone made their wishes at 11:11, maybe for a new gf, or maybe for something totally different. But whatever you wish for, I hope it comes true :). Take advantage of the fact this day only comes around every 100 yrs and it CANNOT be wasted. ;)
Third and final item of serious, lesbian shit. So serious, it's about a porn producer. That's right, this is lesbian porn serious.
Jincey Lumpkin. I heard she has amazing porn so check it out, but more importantly check out her new blog-
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jincey-lumpkin
(and no i dont know her and she did not like pay me to post this link or anything i just really like her blog, even more than my own haha)
She posts every week about her different lesbian experiences and life "through her binoculars".
That's all for now,
Stay gay and happy blogging! :)
-Kat
Today I'm here to talk some serious shit.
Veterans Day. A shout out to all vets and their families, we all appreciate what you do for our country. If you know a vet, please thank them for their service and wish them well on this day. Also, another good thing about this day, thanks to the repeal of DADT soon there will be openly gay vets to celebrate on this day too (although I'm sure there are a few already who have just recently come out thanks to no more DADT).
Second item of serious shit :)
11-11-11. I hope everyone made their wishes at 11:11, maybe for a new gf, or maybe for something totally different. But whatever you wish for, I hope it comes true :). Take advantage of the fact this day only comes around every 100 yrs and it CANNOT be wasted. ;)
Third and final item of serious, lesbian shit. So serious, it's about a porn producer. That's right, this is lesbian porn serious.
Jincey Lumpkin. I heard she has amazing porn so check it out, but more importantly check out her new blog-
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jincey-lumpkin
(and no i dont know her and she did not like pay me to post this link or anything i just really like her blog, even more than my own haha)
She posts every week about her different lesbian experiences and life "through her binoculars".
That's all for now,
Stay gay and happy blogging! :)
-Kat
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Oh How the Time Flies
My gosh I just realized today, as I picked up my newly repaired laptop, that it has been nearly two months since I have blogged. As my computer was broken, I had no way to post :( but I'm back now :).
The topic of the day is definitely going to have to be that a lesbian student was just named Homecoming KING, yes king, and that is just truly amazing. Her girlfriend is running for Homecoming Queen and if they win they will be the first lesbian couple in the U.S. to be homecoming royalty together :).
Check out the rest of the story here:
http://abcnews.go.com/US/lesbian-student-named-homecoming-king-high-school-san/story?id=14842686
Stay gay and happy blogging! :)
-Kat
The topic of the day is definitely going to have to be that a lesbian student was just named Homecoming KING, yes king, and that is just truly amazing. Her girlfriend is running for Homecoming Queen and if they win they will be the first lesbian couple in the U.S. to be homecoming royalty together :).
Check out the rest of the story here:
http://abcnews.go.com/US/lesbian-student-named-homecoming-king-high-school-san/story?id=14842686
Stay gay and happy blogging! :)
-Kat
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Topic of the Week:TV
Sooooo a new topic to ponder for the week: lesbian television. MY personal favorite is the all too lesbianly-loved The L Word. What are your favs? (they don't have to be shows about lesbians either, just shows with lesbians in general.) Friends would definitely have to be my comedic favorite (with Carol and Susan the lesbians). It definitely doesn't have the steamy scenes that The L Word does but I mean come on, Friends is just funny. :)
Anyways, share your favs belowww!! :)
A Little Break From Blogging
SOOOO...... I've realized its been quite a while since I've posted on my blog. I just so happened to be preoccupied with some summer love (with quite a beautiful girl I might add :D) and although unfortunately, since she lives far away it will not last, it was worth taking a break from blogging for. So I wanna hear from YOU, my followers, although my blog is not very popular to have maybe even a plural number of blog followers (please, spread the word!), have you ever had a summer love? ;)
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Movies!!
So, 1st topic of my blog, movies. Everyone HAS to have a favorite lesbian movie. My personal favorite right now is Black Swan (gotta love it (; ) What are some of your favorites??
And a Blog is Born
Well if you are reading this, welcome to my blog. I decided it would be fun to start a blog, share my ideas and opinions, and maybe hear back from a few readers. I don't expect to get internet famous overnight but I'm hoping you'll read this blog and maybe pass it along to your other lesbian friends, or at least give it a second look yourself. That's about it for now! Until then,
Happy Blogging,
-Kat
Happy Blogging,
-Kat
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